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Building Bridges Trip 2019: Germany and Poland


“Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it.”— George Santayana

Smiling group of Muslim and Jewish women

“Education and remembrance are the only cures for hatred and bigotry.”— Miriam Oster

Group of Muslim and Jewish women in Berlin

“History and our role in it are being written today. We have the chance, a tiny window, to get it right this time. Never Again truly is now.”— Heather Ciociola, trip participant

Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom Building Bridges Trips

Our annual trips, which started in 2015, emphasize the importance of shared experiences and learning about the “other” together. Previous trips have included journeys to the Balkans — Bosnia and Albania — in 2016, Azerbaijan in 2017, and a trip along the Civil Rights trail in the southern United States in 2018.Muslim and Jewish women with arms around one another walking away from the camera

For this year’s trip, we went to Germany and back to the Sisterhood’s origins in Poland. It was there, in 2010, co-founder Sheryl Olitzky made a commitment to change the rising tide of hate she witnessed both in the United States and abroad, particularly against minorities. This trip, which examined the hate and extremism that gave rise to the Holocaust, was particularly significant set against the backdrop of hate surrounding “the other” today. Confronted both by historical and present-day hate, we reaffirmed our mission to stand up to hate in all its forms.

This Year’s Journey

Led by Muslim Holocaust expert, Dr. Mehnaz Afridi, over 50 Muslim and Jewish women and teens gathered in Berlin and spent several days exploring the city. They visited the Holocaust Memorial to Murdered Jews, Beleplatz, the plaza that was the site of one of the earlier large book burnings under the Nazis, Checkpoint Charlie, and Track 17, where 50,000 Jews were deported to concentration camps. They prayed together at a synagogue for Shabbat prayer and at a mosque for Jummah prayer, and attended dinner and a concert at the Dar Assalam Mosque. They met with local Syrian refugees and also with an NGO fighting anti-Jewish and anti-Muslim hate.

Grouping of Words Associated with Trip“When others witness and hold our individual and collective pain—when we truly see and feel the pain of others, even through our own pain—when we show up for hard and honest conversations and can still comfort and support each other with deep and immutable love at the most basic human level—that is sacred, that is the height of humanity.”Interior of a Synagogue with Ark and Chandelier

Sisters repeatedly saw art designed to remind viewers of the consequences of institutional hate and the refusal to stand up to it. In Berlin, there’s an installation comprised of signs, some as simple as a painted loaf of bread, or musical notation, and a corresponding Nuremberg law on the back, explaining restrictions placed on Jews. At the East Side Art Gallery, local artists were invited to paint a celebration of the freedom of expression on what remains of the eastern side of the Berlin Wall.

“This trip is a much-needed light in today’s world…[the trip] exemplifies our desire to look at the hard stuff, learn from it, and make the world a better place.”

Three smiling women in headscarves

The group visited the Polin Museum in Warsaw and memorials to those who perished in Krakow, and met at the Krakow JCC, they met with Jewish, Muslim, and Christian activists dedicated to interfaith engagement. They also had the opportunity to meet Barbara Pawlic-Miskiewicz, the wife of an imam and active interfaith leader in the Turkic-speaking, Tatar Muslim community. These practitioners of Sunni Islam have lived in Poland since the 14th century, and Barbara shared with the group some of her people’s lineage, history, and cultural traditions. They made a historic visit to Auschwitz I and II, the first known time that Muslim and Jewish women and teens travelled together to the extermination camp and conducted a memorial service incorporating memorial prayers in English, Arabic, and Hebrew to commemorate those who died. The sisters held each other, cried together, and experienced the pain through each other’s eyes.
Entrance to Auschwitz Gates

“It’s weird to say that this was one of the “high points” of the trip. I have no words that can express the sheer compassion and love and sacredness that filled the room where we chanted and prayed and stood in silence. Where we said the names of the 43 Muslims who died there. Where we said the names of Jewish family members and other loved ones who died there. We all stood there together, arms around each other, surrounded by the deepest sadness and pain and the purest compassion and love in a place that has seen the deepest dehumanization and hate. In addition to being Jewish and Muslim, we were all also simply human, feeling our own and each other’s feelings equally, none suffering more or less, all witnessing our collective and individual sadness and love for each other. In a place that has seen such ugliness, it was incongruously beautiful.”

Memorial made up of broken headstones in Jewish cemetery in PolandThroughout the experience, women reflected not only on the horrors of the past, but their implications in the current-day. They honored the lives of those who were murdered and also found moments to cherish newfound friendships and sparks of hope.

Sisters travelled to one of Krakow’s two Jewish cemeteries, where the majority of graves are unattended and covered in weeds and many headstones are missing or broken. As a sign of respect and in memory of those buried there, women cleaned gravestones and tidied plots. After these efforts, one woman said, “I’m sure to think about our visit and what it means to be cut off from your ancestry. My heart aches over the immigrant detention centers. So much pain in the world. Maybe it’s important that our hearts stay at least a little broken, to keep our compassion as fuel.”

 

“We can’t change the past, but we can rewrite history by changing the future. This trip gave Sisterhood participants the foundation to do just that.” –Sheryl Olitzky

Women cleaning broken headstones

Muslim and Jewish women gathered for dinner at long tables in a mosque Two women hugging outside Neue Synagogue

Turquoise and peach mosaic tiled wall

“Nothing will change unless and until we make it change.”

Smiling women in headscarves and hats posed between columns

See media coverage of the trip:

Amid Rising Hate Crimes, Muslim and Jewish Women Traveled to Auschwitz Together, Sojourner’s Magazine

Muslim and Jewish Women Tour Shoah Sites in Berlin, Poland, New Jersey Jewish Times

Woman in Red headscarf embracing woman in blue headscarf

“May we continue to move forward together to educate others, support each other, build bridges and stand up for those who need us. And may we also remember to stop, rest, contemplate, and heal ourselves along the way. There is much work to be done, and our desire to leave this world a better place for all children will guide us.”

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Taking the Sisterhood to the Next Stage--Announcement on Transition and Town Hall Meeting
Dear Friends,

As someone who cares deeply about the Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom, you will be most interested in the important news we share with you today. It has been more than a decade since Sheryl Olitzky co-founded the Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom, together with Atiya, to develop a “circle of friendship” between Muslim and Jewish women. With mixed emotions, we share the news of Sheryl’s retirement as Executive Director on March 1, 2021.

We owe a debt of gratitude to Sheryl for her passionate commitment, countless hours, and abundant energy. She has grown the Sisterhood to be an international organization with more than 8,000 Muslim and Jewish women committed to interfaith exchange and partnership. Sheryl has created a healthy organization that is well-positioned to achieve our goals in 2021 and beyond, with a talented and hard-working staff team and a dedicated board of trustees. Following a well-deserved break, we are so fortunate that Sheryl will join the Sisterhood’s Board of Trustees later this year.

The Sisterhood’s succession planning committee and Board of Trustees has hired Ceres Group Advisors (interimdirector@sosspeace.org), an experienced interim leadership team. Ceres Group Advisors will ensure a smooth transition and a strong organizational foundation as we search for our next executive director. Sheryl will help shepherd this process with her vast knowledge, strong community connections, and experience.

The last decade has been a time for great growth and powerful impact for the Sisterhood’s network. What started out as a small chapter of 12 women grew into an organization and evolved into a movement of Muslim and Jewish women and girls committed to building bridges and tearing down barriers of hate and prejudice.

This year, we were confronted with challenges that none of us could have imagined. Last March, when Covid-19 impacted all of our lives, the Sisterhood pivoted to virtual programming, creating space for engagement and participation to connect in new ways across geographic boundaries. We are excited to continue on the Sisterhood journey with you to envision the next stage of the Sisterhood’s development as we emerge from the challenges and opportunities of the last year.  We commit to doing more to meet your needs and opening our tent to reach more Muslim and Jewish women and girls who want to make this world a better place. And, we look forward to your engagement in this brave space of the Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom.

Now, more than ever, our mission to build trust, respect, and relationships between Muslim and Jewish women and teenage girls and to work together to end hate for all human beings is more important than it has ever been. With your continued support and participation, we are confident that the Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom will thrive and set the stage for bold programs and important new connections during this crucial time in history.

Please feel free to reach out to us or to Sheryl (sherylolitzky@gmail.com) with any questions or thoughts.

Warmest regards,


Roberta Elliott, President     
(robertabelliott@gmail.com)

Atiya Aftab, Co-founder & Chair Emeritus
(criterion17@gmail.com)

To join the Townhall meeting on Wednesday, February 3rd at 8pm ET, please email Nadia at nadia@sosspeace.org for ZOOM registration link.

Town Hall Facebook Live With One of The Sisterhood's Greatest Supporters inThe U.S. Senate!
Cofounders, Sheryl Olitzky and Atiya Aftab, in dialogue with Senator Cory Booker as we focus on the issues facing us as Muslim and Jewish women in this challenging time in our history. Click here to watch.